Warrior Mama came from a T-shirt one of my friends purchased for me since I have been battling with invasive ductal carcinoma (breast cancer). I really like this phrase as it certainly relates to what it feels like to be in a battle for your life throughout this process.
I never knew just how unique cancer truly is, it’s as unique as our DNA, and everyone’s treatment course can vary slightly or significantly. For me, every decision made since the beginning was questioned and heavily researched. When it comes to cancer, there is no road-map to rid yourself of the disease. There are several treatment courses, and at times it feels like the doctors just want to throw the book at you to see what works.
Ultimately I want to trust in my care team but I knew from the start I would need to be involved in the decision making. You see, several months before my diagnosis I went to my primary OB and asked about a small lump I had felt, it was brushed off as being nothing but if I would feel more comfortable I could go get a mammogram, my doctor was not concerned at all. Luckily, I said yes I wanted a diagnostic mammogram even though I was not 40 years old (the recommended age for women to start getting screened) and I did not have a family history on my mother’s side.
A few months after that, I was faced with what seemed to be the impossible – breast cancer. It has been a wild ride full of many ups and downs and life lessons. This entire process has certainly made me stronger and more grateful for the many small blessings (and the big ones too!) that I have in my life.
On Monday, June 14, 2021, I rang the bell! This signaled my final 30/30 radiation therapy session. I still have a journey ahead, but I am very hopeful for the future.
If anything can come of my journey, I would like to spread further awareness to the COTP community. Please get your preventive care screenings and please be an advocate for your own health and the health of your loved ones! If you feel something is off with your body, get it checked out and don’t stop until you are satisfied that you or your loved one has been thoroughly listened to and examined. With today’s advanced technology and knowledge, God has given us hope for everyday miracles. We just need the courage to speak up and ask for help. This is me in the photo at my last radiation session ringing that bell – my miracle moment.
I pray that we will find a cure for all cancers, but until then I ask God to give everyone the wisdom and courage to catch their cancer early and the strength to get through the treatment process.
